A polgári szertarás közben szokás a közös gyertyát meggyújtani (vagy rosszabb idő esetén homokot is lehet önteni). Ezen eseményhez illenek az alábbi zenék.I will be here (Steven Curtis Chapman)
For You (Kenny Latimore)
When I Said I Do (Clint Black and Lisa Hartman)
You're My Latest, Greatest Inspiration (Teddy Pendergrass)
When You Say Nothing At All (Ronan Keating)
Give me Forever (I Do) (John Tesh)
True Companion (Marc Cohn)
Keeper of the Stars (Tracy Byrd)
The Wedding Song (Peter, Paul and Mary)
I Wanna Be Your Everything (Keith Urban)
Me and You (Kenny Chesney)
Forever and Always (Shania Twain)
Let It Be (The Beatles)
Nothing Else Matters (Metallica)
One Hand, One Heart (Bernstein (West Side Story))
Everything I Do (Bryan Adams)
Amazing Grace (Lari White)
When You Love Someone (Bryan Adams)
I Do (Cherish You) (98 degrees)
Always (Atlantic starr)
From this moment (Shania Twain & Bryan White)
Ave Maria (Pavarotti)
I Could Never Love You Enough (Brian McComas)
Flesh of my flesh (Leon Patillo)
You Light Up My Life (Leanne Rimes)
